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vtecduck
03-24-2007, 07:33 PM
A lot of you guys on here know that we were trying to adopt our nephew Chase that was in foster care because he was born with a heart condition due to his mom drinking and doing drugs when she was pregnant with him. We found out yest that he had gotten a stomach virus Thursday night, they couldn't get it under control and called 911 to have him rushed to the hospital. On the way his heart stopped and they couldn't get him revived. The little guy was only 9 months old. My wife and I are heart broken. You guys are family to me and I wanted you to know.

ryan89crx
03-24-2007, 07:34 PM
damn, im so sorry to hear that! my thoughts are with you and your family...

93 red ls
03-24-2007, 07:38 PM
dang man sorry to hear that buddy.... is there going to be a fund @ a bank or anything for people to donate in his name or help with costs of everything? if so i'd like to help out

CrazyConscious
03-24-2007, 07:39 PM
I cant even imagine what its like to deal with that...we're here for you

modsHXcivi
03-24-2007, 07:40 PM
Jason my prayers go out to you and yours ....i,m so sorry to hear this.

4Door Life
03-24-2007, 07:41 PM
my heart go's out to the both of you...

Importfan1
03-24-2007, 07:45 PM
sry to hear man.

EG6-Jarhead
03-24-2007, 07:50 PM
praying for you bro, you'll make it through, time is the ultimate healer :TU:

EG6-Jarhead
03-24-2007, 07:52 PM
You guys are family to me and I wanted you to know.

you got it, :TU: to d-series

remoer
03-24-2007, 07:52 PM
i recieved the call yesterday when it happen, man i felt so bad. especially when i talked to kris and she was balling. i tried to cheer her up but the truth is, no matter what i could say could never aleave the pain.

kit88
03-24-2007, 08:30 PM
sorry to hear that, give her some time.

20civic00
03-24-2007, 08:33 PM
im really sorry about that man. i hope everything getts better for you and your wife

Clutchmaster
03-24-2007, 08:35 PM
your in my prayers bro..sorry for your loss

NastyHabitzCRX
03-24-2007, 08:42 PM
oh man, no matter what anyone says can make you feel better....

4drturboD
03-24-2007, 09:16 PM
sorry to hear that man. that's just terrible.

beaslbob
03-24-2007, 10:05 PM
sorry to hear of your loss.

civic97
03-24-2007, 10:23 PM
omg im sorry to hear that bro:(...my thoughts and prayers are with you and the family.

transzex
03-24-2007, 10:33 PM
BIG props to you for trying to adopt, trying to make a HUGE difference in a small one's life.

I'll save my abortion/adoption thoughts for later. I see three sides.

HCJDM1
03-24-2007, 10:52 PM
sorry to hear that bro ... as others have said my prayers and my heart goes out to you and your family and may the little guy rest in peace.

siregcivic
03-24-2007, 10:52 PM
hey duck, im sorry for what happened man that brought a tear to my eye and i hope that everything gets better for you mang...

mugenej8power
03-24-2007, 10:56 PM
:( sorry to hear man. hope everything works out. stay strong

vtecencrx
03-24-2007, 11:18 PM
sorry for your loss man :(

areskzc
03-25-2007, 01:51 AM
May this little angel get some peace. I'm sorry for you.

Agent T
03-25-2007, 06:14 AM
My heart goes out to you and your family as well man, really sorry to hear about this.

pandorasbox
03-25-2007, 07:05 AM
Im really sorry to hear about that duck. Your a great person to try to adopt, not enough people with a heart like that. Time will heal...

Fooshitinkinjssomethingorother
03-25-2007, 07:53 AM
Damn dude. I'm so sorry to hear this. My sister went through something similar when they were adopting. The baby didn't die, but was taken by another family right in front of them. I was about this close to flying to missourri and kicking the shit out of the other parents. Never have I felt so violated...

But enough about me. I'll be pulling for you to get through this. I'm always here if you need me man. :TU:

torturedsol
03-25-2007, 09:21 AM
damn man, just damn

93civiccx
03-25-2007, 10:31 AM
Sorry to hear man. Either way, he's gone to a better place.

sohcnovtec
03-25-2007, 11:07 AM
Sorry to hear about your loss...

remoer
03-25-2007, 12:26 PM
just got off the phone w/duck their doing a bit better. they just wanting for the funneral to be over so the healing process to begin. i'll be going up to hangout w/him and kris(wife) later this week. they're trying to keep busy, so it won't be so hard. hey taylor are you still in the states, cause he's coming to get me i thought we'll go and grab something to eat or a beer. call him or me.

vtecduck
03-25-2007, 01:00 PM
thanks for all the support guys, It means a lot my wife and I. Like Remo said, we are just trying to stay busy to keep our minds off of things. We are going to try to get down to Atlanta to pick up Remo later in the week and bring him up for a few days.

Richie_A_19
03-25-2007, 02:03 PM
Damn, Jason... That is some of the saddest news I have heard in a long time... I'm sorry. On a related note, if it makes you feel any better, Emily is perfectly healthy and that flu took a lot out of her too.


IM me if you need anything. I'm always on.

Sonny7730
03-25-2007, 02:22 PM
very sorry to hear it man. you're in our thoughts and prayers

myHonda1
03-25-2007, 10:33 PM
i'm so sorry to hear man!

MrHalder
03-25-2007, 10:51 PM
...im sorry for what happened man that brought a tear to my eye and i hope that everything gets better for you...


x2... :( What you and your where trying to do is often overlooked by so many people.

:TU: To you, your wife. :TU:

and no I just didn't hit the quote button on some random post. Is all I could think of is the pic you showed all of us.

Levi
03-25-2007, 10:51 PM
I am sorry to hear that Jason, that is terrible news. Poor little guy had a rough time from the beginning. Hang in there, let me know if there is anything that I can do for you and Kris.

-Levi

1990reds13
03-25-2007, 10:52 PM
i give you props for trying to adopt, i was adopted myself.. you are in my thoughts and prayers man..

vtecduck
03-26-2007, 04:44 PM
We found out today that the funeral is going to be Wed at 1:30pm. The funeral home is donating the funeral services and a local cemetery is donating a plot and burial services. We are going to be setting up some memorials in Chase's name for people that want to donate. I know we are going to set one up with the American Heart Association and a few others. I will let everyone know the details once I know for sure what all we are setting up.

cory jordan
03-26-2007, 05:21 PM
*shakes head* im sorry.

9295EJ-t
03-26-2007, 05:53 PM
wow.. i guess i havent been around enough to hear about this news.. but i am sorry for the loss...

jimmyb34
03-26-2007, 05:58 PM
im really sorry to hear that.. if you need to talk or anythign feel free to hit me up

torturedsol
03-26-2007, 06:49 PM
Hey if you all are driving you should take a detour on the way back and stop by here. I don't usualy have the funds to go to meets and it's always nice meeting some board members in person.

If you think you might be able to squeeze it in toss me a PM

EJ1 Freak
03-28-2007, 04:09 PM
I'm so sorry hun! :(

MiloReaper87
03-28-2007, 04:53 PM
it breaks my lil heart hearing that its another way of abortion and its a newborn or new life that shit like that tears u up its just fuked up

PianoMan
03-28-2007, 08:55 PM
*speechless*

(Nods his head and says a prayer...)

PM

remoer
03-28-2007, 09:22 PM
i'm waiting for duck to call me, he said he has been shutting off his phone cause the damd thing hasn't stop ringing. so if your trying to get ahold of him on his phone and can't you know now. shout out to the jerky boy. lol

MyblkVTEC
03-28-2007, 10:01 PM
DAMN MAN.... im sry :(

88crxBkillaz
03-28-2007, 10:18 PM
my prays are with you man

eddcartes
03-29-2007, 05:16 AM
oh my god dude i'm so sorry... man. anything you need just let me know.

gpny
03-29-2007, 08:31 AM
Just noticed this thread now. So sorry to hear that. Our prayers are with you and with Chase

remoer
03-29-2007, 10:21 AM
yup, i just got the call from Duck he's on the way down to pick me up. i'll try to cheer him up. foo we'll be seen you in a bit we'll eat dinner.